Musings from a Pastor, Educator, Wife, and Mother





Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Clear Eyes, Full Hearts, Can't Lose!

One of the most under-rated television shows in recent years, in my humble opinion, was Friday Night Lights.  The series followed the lives of a Texas high school football coach, his family, and players on his team.  Coach Taylor is known for his rousing pep-talks both on and off the field in the series.  One of the lines that has become well-known from the show is "Clear Eyes. Full Hearts. Can't Lose!"  

I don't say things like this very often, but I feel that God continues put the notion of a church visioning process in front of me.  In order for a church to do more than simply survive but to thrive, it needs a clear and compelling vision.  In the book Climb Higher: Reaching New Heights in Giving and Discipleship, authors Scott McKenzie and Kristine Miller highlight the truth that pastors, sessions, and even Presbyteries try to deny: that often times a church's vision is merely to pay the bills and keep the doors open.  For many of the smaller churches out there, this is a gargantuan task in it's own right.    These days there are so many organizations out there asking for people to donate their hard-earned money to this cause or that charity, the voice of one crying out, "In the wilderness,prepare ye the way of the Lord" is lost in a cacophony of other voices, other needs.  

Maybe, just maybe, the reason that our cries are muffled is because we aren't asking the right questions!  Anyone can ask for money, anyone can say, "this is the budget, help us meet it."  Anyone can pull off a stewardship campaign and perhaps get back a small percentage of pledge cards.  In truth, we aren't saying in our churches, "we are preparing a way for the Lord" or "we are making disciples of all nations" we are saying, "here are the numbers, help us keep the lights on."  The questions are not "How much do we need? How much do I give?" The questions are, "Why should I part with my money to give to the church? What will be the effect of my giving to the church rather than say, the American Cancer Society or Children's Miracle Network?"  Friends, do not hear me saying that these are not worthy causes, they certainly are!  My point is, people want to see their money, time, and talents transforming lives!  

Our mission is given to us in the scriptures, it is the great commission.  It is the vision portion that is difficult.  We have to put in sufficient time and effort, in work, study and prayer to discern where our strengths intersect with the needs of the community.  What is it that God is calling us to do in this place and at this time?  

It is time for our church to ponder the difficult questions:
Who are we?
What is our context or community for ministry?
What does God want?

Then, and only then, will we find the inspiration and the motivation to support the ministries of the church, the activities and the people, rather than simply paying the bills.  Clear Eyes. Full Hearts.  Can't Lose!  

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Rules For A New Life


Ephesians 4:25-5:2

25 So then, putting away falsehood, let all of us speak the truth to our neighbours,
 for we are members of one another. 26Be angry but do not sin; do not let the sun 
go down on your anger, 27and do not make room for the devil. 28Thieves must give 
up stealing; rather let them labour and work honestly with their own hands, so as to
 have something to share with the needy. 29Let no evil talk come out of your mouths, 
but only what is useful for building up, as there is need, so that your words may give 
grace to those who hear. 30And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with which you 
were marked with a seal for the day of redemption.31Put away from you all bitterness
 and wrath and anger and wrangling and slander, together with all malice, 
32and be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, 
as God in Christ has forgiven you. 51Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children
2and live in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering 
and sacrifice to God.


Rules For A New Life

For several weeks Michael has been saying to me, “You should watch this new show The Newsroom, its awesome!”  And for several weeks I continued to tell him that I would get around to it eventually.  Finally, one evening I felt motivated to watch the show and so I began to watch the six aired episodes in a marathon fashion.  I am absolutely hooked!  The premise of the series is that a jaded and slightly arrogant news anchor, his executive producer, and the rest of the staff for the cable news show begin a serious mission to report the news well in the face of corporate and commercial obstacles.  Within the fictitious plot of The Newsroom, its breaking news stories for News Night are based on real reported events in America’s recent history.  Last week’s episode revolved around the staff breaking the story of the death of Osama Bin Laden.  Throughout the episode three of the characters are stuck on a plane in LaGuardia airport, unable to get to the news station to participate in breaking the story.  One character in particular, a hotheaded producer named Don continues to rage to the stewardess on the plane that the plane is stopped on the runway, that there is no reason that he should not be allowed to get out of his seat, and even more so that he absolutely must get off the plane!  As the trio begins to piece together what the monumental news from the President will be, Don becomes more enraged and he jumps out of his seat and begins to get the attention of the entire plane, as whispers from the cabin begin to erupt about a possible terrorist attack, threat of war etc.  The stewardess calls for the pilots to come out and as Don wheels around to continue his tirade about the ridiculousness of his circumstances he suddenly realizes just why the stewardess and the pilots would be nervous, why these rules have to be implemented on flights.  It is then that Don reports the news.  He tells the pilots that he is proud to announce to them that on that very night Osama Bin Laden had been killed. [1]

It was a very powerful moment for me in the show, especially to see that a character that I tend to despise does have some redeeming qualities.  It reminded me that we are all human and we all have flaws.  We are all prone to sins of anger, greed, and malice.  But, as Christians, we must let the image of God in us shine through the mire.  This passage from Ephesians today encourages us to live a new life.  Our reading this morning gives us an occasion to think about what it means not to be just a name on the rolls of a church, but a living, breathing, follower of Jesus, with our hearts and minds transformed by giving our lives over to God in Jesus Christ.  Last week we read about Jesus’ second encounter with the crowds after he served the multitudes.  When asked how they should do the work of God, Jesus simply responded that they must believe in him.  This passage teaches us what comes out of living that faith.  The letter of James tells us that faith without works is dead.  We need not do works for salvation, we need only believe as Christ tells us.  But our faith should naturally compel us to lead lives in which good works are done.  Our faith should compel us to follow these rules laid out in Ephesians.  If we are truly given over to Christ, truly transformed, people will be able to see it. 

We are called in this passage to speak the truth to our neighbors.  It seems to me that in our world today ‘speaking the truth’ and ‘first amendment rights’ have become more and more a battle of sensationalism and extreme confrontations.  The questions of civil rights and freedom of speech come down to the slogan of “to eat or not to eat more chicken!”  We argue over gun laws in circles incessantly because we are afraid to face the truth that our systems for treating the mentally ill are not working!  We are afraid to admit some civic responsibility when innocents are killed while watching a movie or worshipping in their own faith tradition.  And the sad truth is that I saw a lot more of my fellow Christians posting articles and pictures online about a chicken sandwich than I have seen regarding the shooting at the Sikh temple in Wisconsin.  Is this what being members of one another looks like?  I don’t see any media coverage of Christians on either the  so-called liberal or conservative side protesting at gun shops or rallying for better care of our mentally ill civilians because the commandment “Thou Shalt Not Kill” has been broken in horrific ways in the past month, not to mention multiple times each and every day. 

Could it be that we in the church spend so much time talking about sexuality, property, and authoritative interpretations in order to avoid telling the truth in love? Rev. Katherine Huey challenges that,  “perhaps we also want to avoid talking about the even larger questions of generosity: the forgiveness for example, that comes with a gentle and generous spirit that lets go of resentment, anger, and old grudges, not to mention the death-grip that we often have on our own self-righteousness! Even more paralyzing,” Huey says, “is our fear of the truth, of telling and hearing the truth.  And yet, a faith community that is both truthful and loving is an immeasurable gift in our lives.  This passage begins with an exhortation to tell the truth, but that command is tempered by love, and later by kindness.”[2] 

The author of this letter goes on to write: “Thieves must give up stealing; rather let them labor and work honestly with their own hands, so as to have something to share with the needy.”  Have you ever had something stolen from you?  I have, and I have friends who have, and it is such a disheartening and frustrating experience.  And if it is an object that is stolen from your home, your car, your office, it makes you feel unsafe, violated, and exploited.  It seems strange to me to have this portion of the rules plopped down in the middle of language about angry, harsh words.  But then I think about how thieves have made me feel in the past and it begins to make sense.  As I continued to read through this passage I was also struck by the encouragement to forgive.  Being wronged is hurtful but in not forgiving, you only hurt yourself.  And, in a situation of being stolen from, I have to remind myself that hopefully the person needed that which was lost more than I did, that I was able in that moment to provide for someone in need. Being a Christian means living a life that you are proud of, one that is rooted in decency. One in which you use your gifts and talents not only to provide for your own life but to also share in the lives of others.

  “Do not make room for the devil and do not let evil come from your mouth, but only what is useful for building up,” verses 27 and 29 tell us.  Don’t let anger rule your life.  As a Christian we are called in this passage to let our words give grace to those who hear it.  In the midst of the debates about Chick-Fil-A last week, I heard far more anger and resentment coming from people on both sides of the issue rather than words that give grace to those who hear it. Perhaps we don’t understand that every time we speak it is an occasion for building up, an occasion for grace…perhaps we forget the power of words since we sling them about so freely. 


Rev. Huey begs the question, “If we know ourselves as members of a body, how can we be at war with one another, outwardly or underneath the surface and behind one another’s back?  If we truly belong to one another and to the Body of Christ, how can we hurt one another with angry words and actions? When we act out of anger, we hurt ourselves, in a very real sense, as the members of a body should not and would not hurt each other.”[3]   It is true that we are humans and humans have emotions and those should be accepted and validated.  We also are called to take ownership of our emotions.  But the scriptures tell us that the emotion we must let go of is anger, it is poisonous to us if we do not. ?”   The author of this letter urges us to resist acting out of anger.    We have all seen anger simmering within congregation members from time to time.  Quiet angers simmer within us individually, in our homes or our workplace and yes, though we would rather not admit it, here in this church.  When this happens, when we hold on to anger, when we become passive-aggressive in our behavior, or when we chose to walk away from our Christian brothers and sisters rather than bother with the difficult work of forgiveness, we grieve the Holy Spirit.  We feed bitterness, a disposition that cherishes resentment.  We cling to former grievances, real or imaginary.  Our fury can build until we have violent outbursts or shouting matches.  All of these are harmful to the Christian community.    The church, whether it is a local congregation or a denomination at large, is always beset by conflict and anger.  The players and the problems vary, but the sins persist.   Today, we are called instead to forgive, to speak the truth in love and build one another up with our words!

Perhaps we have to ask ourselves if those people beyond our doors encounter us each day as gentle spirits and tender hearts.  Would our conduct and manner betray us as followers of Jesus?  Is our faithfulness authentic or is it more like a bumper-sticker band-aid that hides the dings and dent in the paint?  I can’t help but think of those lovely stickers we see so often in these parts that read, “not I but Christ.”  Oh I see, was that Christ that just cut me off in traffic?  Was that Christ who parked illegally in that handicapped spot?  Was that Christ who just shook his fist out the window at a stoplight?  Our faith should be revealed in actions, not just stickers and slogans.  Today we are reminded we are made in an image of God that is to be reflected as much as possible.

“If God has been generous and forgiving of us, how can we who belong to God be anything but forgiving, anything but kind to one another?”   The author of this letter urges us to resist acting out of anger.   We are called to forgive one another as Christ has forgiven us.  Do you remember when we took those health surveys months ago?  There were some questions on there about our spiritual health.  Guess what, the struggle that stood out the most from our results was that of forgiveness!   Each day, difficult as it is, we must try to forgive those who have wronged us, those who have angered us.  And we must remember that we have probably angered or hurt someone in the past and we would desire that they forgive us as well.  This may be an ongoing process for us, but thanks be that God is the ultimate judge not us, and thanks be that our God is a God of grace!


We are told here to be imitators of God.  Larry Patten wonders, “How can anyone claim to mimic God?” The truth is that rather than mimicking God we often end up limiting God.  Patten confesses that even though he as one person matters so little and that he will likely oftentimes fail, he will strive to imitate God by trying to “widen the circle of love.”[4] 

In truth, a passage as short as this one can make us feel very unworthy of God’s love.  How can we ever measure up to this, how can we think of imitating God?  We can look to Paul and other people in the Scriptures as examples.  Paul never hesitated to confess his own short-comings but he always strove towards perfection.  As he wrote in Philippians 3:14, “press on toward the goal for the prize of the heavenly call of God in Christ Jesus.” If the world does not look upon us and see the One we claim to follow, then we have a problem.  I daresay with the way many Christians have been carrying themselves through the world these days, this is the case.  Ephesians urges us to avoid empty gestures and the sins of anger, greed, and malice, and to focus instead on the practices of kindness that faithfully reflect our belief in Christ Jesus.  Let us leave here today and seek to follow these rules for a new life. Amen.


[1] www.hbo.com/thenewsroom internet accessed 8/7/12
[2] Rev. Katherine Huey, www.ucc.org internet accessed 8/7/12
[3] Rev. Katherine Huey
[4] Larry Patten, www.larrypatten.com internet accessed 8/7/12